Indulge One Self Definition Essay

,      Pages 323-328

, California State University, Fullerton

, California State University, Long Beach

Mute black night,

Sudden fire.

Destruction.

Deng Ming-Dao

Furniture? Gone. Clothing? Gone. Home? Gone. Cherished items? Gone. So reads the personal inventory list of countless victims of natural disasters. On the day before the disaster struck, the same victims had defined themselves, in part, through material objects they had accumulated during their lives. Would the destruction of personal possessions result in a restructuring of values and lifestyles for the victims? If so, how would those changes manifest themselves in the post-disaster purchase behavior of those victims?

In 1992, the insurance industry paid out $23 billion for destruction due to catastrophic loss in the U.S. (Scism, 1994). Media coverage of such disasters describes grief and disclosed astronomical costs from physical damage, but few reporters allocate space or time to the personal reconstruction process. The billions of dollars paid out in claim settlements to policy holders for the replacement of lost items provides an unique opportunity to study post-disaster consumer buying behavior. One important issue for study is the repurchase process. As Belk often suggests, by considering the role of consumption in providing meaning in life, we may develop a stronger vision of the significance of consumer research.

Post-disaster conditions provide a singular opportunity for studying certain aspects of consumption. Unlike normal purchasing patterns that are episodic in nature, post-disaster buying necessitates an overwhelming and pervasive commitment to personal restoration through the acquisition of new furniture, new clothing, new art, and sometimes even a new home in a very short period of time. Whether they realize it or not, disaster victims have the opportunity, through their purchases, to re-define themselves. Understanding the nature of that purchasing process is the objective of this exploratory study. Specifically this research utilized one community, transformed by a natural disaster, to investigate the relationship between material objects and personal identity. Using Babbie's (1989) definition of a proposition, we strive to draw conclusions drawn about the relationships among concepts; specifically, we plan to investigate some general propositions based on the literature of materialism and self-definition. We will utilize exploratory research to derive further insights into the relationship between newly purchased material objects and individual redefinition by victims of natural disaster.

LITERATURE REVIEW

The literature on disaster research, the nature and meaning of possessions, self-gifts, and identity are reviewed here to ground this study.

Disaster Research

Disaster literature emanates from several perspectives: psychologists study the grief and loss brought on by disaster (Gist & Lubin 1989; Bravo, et al 1990); sociologists are interested in group reaction and adaptation to disaster (Fiske & Taylor 1984): and organizations formulate policy to manage disaster relief activities (Wolfenstein 1957).

The use of natural disasters as a setting for the study of consumer behavior is almost absent from the literature. Sayre (1994) examined change in the meanings of possessions lost for victims of a firestorm, but did not explore how shifts in meaning affected post-disaster consumption or repurchasing behavior. Because insurance settlements would enable disaster victims in this sample to repurchase destroyed items [IRS law specifies that insurance settlement proceeds must be spent within two years of the settlement date; unspent funds are taxable as regular income.] , this study embraces Sayre's notion of "absence" (implying temporary separation) of possessions rather than "loss" (denoting permanent separation) of possessions. Although we acknowledge the loss of cherished items or "favorite things," (Mehta & Belk, 1991) this study does not concern itself with irreplaceable objects. The absence notion is useful for conceptualizing the purchasing mindset of disaster victims.

Nature and Meaning of Possessions

The significance of material objects to people has been of interest to consumer behavior researchers since psychological theories of development were used to approach how people attached meaning to objects (Piaget 1957; Erikson 1979) . Possessions have been studied as collections (Stewart 1984), money (Lungren 1980; Furnham and Lewis 1986), pets (Cain 1985), gifts (Cheal 1986), and body parts (Rook 1985).

According to Furby (1978), possessions are multidimensional; she points out that possessions take on meaning from the society in which they are used. Lancaster and Fodly (1988) suggests that the use and control of objects are principal characteristics of ownership. Csikszentimihalyi and Rochberg-Halton (1981) made the psychological connection between objects and personal meaning in their study of ownership which investigated how extensively things shape the identity of the users. These authors, and later Walendorf, Belk and Heisley 's (1988) research from the Consumer Behavior Odyssey, demonstrated that possessions are infused with meaning by those who own them.

Osgood (1952) defines meaning as a bundle of components including experiences, images and feelings in addition to information. Meaning can reside in the object itself or in the mind of the user. Most material objects receive meaning through association with specific use and contexts. Kleine & Kernan (1991), who define meaning as a perception or interpretation of an object, developed a social-psychological paradigm for how individuals ascribe meanings to contextualized objects that embraces symbolic differentiation.

The relationship between material things and individuals is often overshadowed by the concept of property which cannot be separated from the basic relationship between being and having (Sartre 1969), a relationship that purports the importance of goods for self-definition. Miller's (1987) notion of personal property, which assumes a genuinely self-productive relationship between persons and objects, is a manifestation of Sartre's notion that is particularly relevant to this study.

However, since disaster had destroyed the possessions that were vested with significant meanings, victims may decline to make similar emotional reinvestments in their new purchases. In fact, we expect disaster victims to place less significance in the objects they will or have acquired as symbols of self than they had previously placed in personal possessions.

Proposition #1: Objects will be less significant to respondents as symbols of self than they were prior to the disaster.

Self-gifting

Out of necessity, disaster victims become prone to materialism because the main focus of their post-disaster lives is to rebuild and rebuy for themselves and their families. Belk (1979) and Sherry (1983) stress that the roles and meanings of self-gifts (gifts purchased for one's self or family) are context bound. In this instance, the context for gift buying is repurchasing involuntarily disposed goods, an area not covered by research on gift giving.

According to Mick and Demoss (1990), self-gifts can be the result of disappointments, depression and/or having extra money. They proposed a dimension of "specialness" in gifting which, when applied to self-gifts, brings an extra meaningfulness based on the uncommonness or deserving elements. When applied to interpersonal gifts, specialness also implies extra meaningfulness facilitated by qualities of sacredness and deep emotions. The extent to which specialness, deserving, and money figure into the nature of purchasing is of interest to this post-disaster research where one would expect self-gifting to be an integral part of the repurchase process.

Impulse buying, defined by Rook (1987) as the urge to buy immediately, is often associated with sensitive emotional states and may play a role in disaster victim purchasing. Because of the psychological reorientation caused by physical displacement and loss and by the sense of immediaacy, we expect disaster victims to approach repurchasing with a different perspective than had they not experienced disaster. We also expect impulse buying and gifting to play a role in purchasing behavior among disaster victims.

Proposition #2: Respondents are likely to reward themselves for surviving the emotional trauma of disaster with buying behaviors that are untypical of their previous purchase occasions.

Identity and Self-definition

The idea that we regard possessions as extensions of ourselves has been well developed by Belk (1988), whose research indicates that the relationship established by an attachment to an object by its owner is an important source of identity. Hirschman and LaBarbera (1990) define objects for self-identity as being secular (symbols of accomplishment) and sacred (representative of past and personal memories with relationship links; utility items). Wicklund and Gollwitzer (1982) suggest that the construction and preservation of a self-definition depends heavily on a person's use and possession of symbols of completeness, which can be physical entities that signal to others one's self-definitional attainment. The use of owned possessions to develop and maintain self concept has also been studied by Ball and Tasaki (1992) who emphasized the changing character of identity as a factor in attachment to items.

When possessions are lost, the question of what happens to the self may be of great importance to those who study consumer behavior. Consumer research involving the construction or reconstruction of identity (Solomon 1983; Shouten 1991) suggests that consumer behavior is instrumental in the process. McAlexander, Shouten and Roberts (1994) found that people emerging from loss following divorce placed emphasis on acquisitions that symbolized desired or emerging identities.

In the absence of property, disaster victims are forced to replace their possession-based identity with relationship, values and activity-based self definition. After disasters, victims become "have-nots" and are forced to seek other means of personal identity until they are able to repurchase and reconstruct what was lost. Because disaster victims have no existing benchmark for measuring self-definition, purchases have no relationship to context and are made without contextual influences. And because victims lack the normal context as a basis for purchasing, we expect respondents to initiate change through the purchase of objects unrelated to their past identities.

Proposition #3: The nature and style of post-disaster purchases will evidence change or differences in the lives of the respondents.

In her disaster study, Sayre proposed a matrix to conceptualize the relationship between pre- and post-disaster identity based on Sartre's (1943) definition of self as "doing, having and being." In this study the researchers will use respondents' testimony to more accurately characterize the importance of property (having) for self-definition (being). Our three propositions are based on past disaster research as characterized by Sayre.

METHODOLOGY

As suggested by Wells (1993), we began our research "backwards" with a definite objectiveCto find out about the repurchase processCand worked back through a methodology that was constructed to give us "thick descriptions" (Geertz 1973). However, collecting elaborate voluntary descriptions of complex buyer behavior from a vulnerable respondent makes the task of the researcher a difficult one.

Stewart and Cash (1988) discusses the difficulty of interviewing grieving respondents and suggests extra care be taken to respect their situation. In order to stimulate the process of self-disclosure (Jourard 1964), researchers decided to utilize a hybrid of the photo-elicitation technique, video-elicitation, which would combine words and images together. We felt this technique would address the sensitive privacy issue.

Video-elicitation was chosen as a projective technique ideal for organizing in-depth interviews to guard the privacy of a sensitive sample. A third-person video exposure was used to lead the respondents to their own disclosures. Since daytime talk show hosts entice viewers and studio participants into intimate revelations, perhaps our simulation could create a para-social relationship between disaster victims and the video characters.

For the purpose of this study, buying situations and circumstances were discussed on video by actors playing the role of disaster victims in the process of rebuilding their lives. At intervals during the video, respondents were asked about their behavior in comparison to the people they had just seen. The video was designed to jog their memories about different aspects of buying and simultaneously be sensitive to their privacy needs.

Gaining access to disaster victims also posed a research problem. One of the researchers in this study, however, was also a disaster victim and president of a homeowners association that acted as a front for issues dealing with rebuilding Through this association, he solicited and got ample volunteers for the study. The other author was a member of the planning commission that dealt with rebuilding regulations for the city where the disaster occurred, and as such was acquainted with many disaster victims. Access not readily afforded to an outsider was granted to both researchers, the second of whom was given sanctioned outsider status because of her relationship to the other author and to the governmental body responsible for overseeing home replacement.

Technique

A script was written and pretested for its ability to lead victims through the stages of purchasing furnishings for their new homes. The script contained fourteen vignettes, each of which became a scene of the videotape. An announcer explained the purpose, and then scenes played out as a couple sitting in a living room discussing their behavior as they recalled their buying experiences. At the end of each scene, questions were posed simultaneously on the screen and by the announcer.

The taping was done by a professional crew to insure that respondents would react to the contents of the video and not to the foibles of an amateur home movie. The investigator played the twelve-minute tape on a TV/VCR unit that was taken to each respondent's residence. The tape was stopped after each scene, and the respondents comments were recorded on an audio tape.

Sample

Eighteen video-elicited interviews were conducted with respondents who had suffered complete losses of their homes. All respondents had substantial insurance settlements and were either building replacement homes or had purchased another home that they needed to completely refurnish. Respondents were representative of the demographics of the entire sample of this city's disaster victims. Two interviews were conducted without the videotape to act as a control for comparison purposes. These respondents, who had also lost everything, were asked the same questions and their replies recorded.

RESULTS

Interpretive analysis of respondents' accounts of their rebuilding and repurchasing efforts was undertaken to test our three propositions and to identify other themes related to the reacquisition process. One surprise emerged from the data.

Object Symbolism

Our first Proposition was that objects would be less significant to respondents as symbols of self than they were prior to the disaster. As expected, objects were not significant symbols of self for disaster victims. Past research (McCracken 1987) suggests that repurchased objects serve as 'dramatic props' that help people deal with the transitions to and performances of their new roles. Although we found respondents purchased items that materialized their future roles, these objects were not significant criteria for self-definition. During the absence of their possessions, most victims undertook personal value reassessments. Many respondents reported that "things" no longer assumed a significant role in their lives. Others were determined not to reinvest their emotional energy in material possessions, but to concentrate on relationships and self-actualization. Transcripts yielded the following disclosures:

I had so much love tied up in my things. I can't go through that kind of loss again. What I'm buying now won't be as important to me. [F 50s]

We got a Wolf range instead of a Kenmore, and a Sub-Zero instead of a Hotpoint. Because we had the money. Not because we care what our friends think. We got quality conscious, I guess. [M 40s]

Yea, we got better stuff, but it doesn't mean anything to us. It's just stuff. [M 50s]

Thus, this research indicated that victims were less likely to place emphasis on objects for self-definition than they had prior to the disaster and their testimony provided support for our first proposition.

Self-gifts and Impulse Buying

Our second proposition was that respondents were likely to reward themselves for surviving the trauma of a disaster with buying behaviors untypical of their previous purchasing behavior. As expected, themes of self-gifting and impulse buying were described in several ways among respondents; the most prevalent are discussed here.

Bigger is Better. Expansion of home size was an element of self-gifting revealed in the text of interviews. Any victim who was rebuilding a destroyed home with the same configuration and less than a 10% increase in the square footage had a city guarantee of an expedited review and permitting process. Those who chose to enlarge their homes or make significant architectural changes (move the garage, change the roofline, etc.) were subjected to more rigorous scrutiny and possible delays. In spite of the financial and temporal incentives to rebuild in kind, only two households interviewed chose that option. Reasons for house expansion centered around the opportunity to improve personal lifestylesCa gift to themselves for surviving disaster. One respondent decided to move rather than rebuild; she went into a retirement community after neighbors rebuked her rebuilding efforts of a slightly larger home. The following are some interview transcripts about rebuilding as gifting.

We decided to go for it. After all, we deserve it, going through the fire and all. Bigger will be better. [F 40s]

We always wanted a larger bedroom and maybe an office. So after the fire, we said, 'why not.' After all, we might never get another chance like this. [M 40s]

Hey, our family is growing and the insurance company is paying, so for sure we're building bigger. [F 30s]

Cash and Carry. Another aspect of self-gifting revealed itself as the novelty of purchasing with a full wallet. Depending on insurance policies, many respondents received significant settlement checks earmarked for either rebuilding or repurchasing household contents. The sudden implosion of funds altered some of their buying habits.

I never used to like to shop, but now that we have the money, it's fun! [M 40s]

[After I got the money] my sister came to town and we went down to the store and bought everything at once. We just picked one of this and one of that. Only took us a few hours. [F 80s]

We got so used to buying that our lifestyles had evolved to a new level. We were very nervous about what would happen when the money dried up. Could we go back to living within our salaries? [M40s]

We had the money, so we took trips. We had no house to come home to, so why not? We went to Europe three times in six months, one time for several weeks. Just for the fun of it. [M40s]

We have some buyer's remorse because we went around spending like kids in a candy store. We got some expensive artCin JapanCthat just doesn't go with anything else. [M 50s]

Other victims indicated that, while picking out appliances, they acted on their impulses to buy up in price from what they might have otherwise.

We probably don't need one, but the Sub-Zero is a super special fridge . . . we treated ourselves. [F 40s]

A Wolfe range . . . because we had always wanted one and now we could have it. [M 50s]

Gifting and impulse buying were characteristic of most shopping descriptions.

We Deserve It. The aspect of "deserving" appeared at least once in every interviewCa clear indication of self-gifting psychology. Respondents felt that the trauma and hardships endured after the loss of their homes and possessions were ample justification for rewarding themselves. Some bought things out of their normal price range; others upgraded their cars and appliances; all victims improved their dwelling space or quality. Here are some of their rationalizations for spending:

. . . . so we decided to splurge. What the hell, we deserve it. [F50s]

After all we've been through, why should we deny ourselves the best? [M40s}

It's a treat for us, for our pain. [F 30s]

We found ample support for proposition 2, and, indeed, previous buying habits were discarded in favor of larger homes, more expensive brand sets, and other items previously out of their financial reach.

Change Manifestations

Our third proposition was that the nature and style of purchases would evidence change or difference in victims' lives. As expected, most respondents opted for change when purchasing replacements for their absent belongings. Two manifestations of change appeared in respondents' transcripts.

Different is Desirable. The decision to change architectural styles was common with our respondents. Only one couple rebuilt exactly the same house; two others built similarly with modifications because they had recently remodeled or purchased. Change was the rule rather than the exception: three respondents wanted to create a certain look in keeping with the city's style; the remainder let their architects have free reign. A few architectural renderings submitted to the city planning department departed substantially from tradition, but most of our respondents decided on more modest designs. The following remarks are from victims who wanted their new homes to reflect personal change:

You can't put back or replace what you had. It was too personalCit was customized. Everything should be new. Our jobs have changed, our lives have changed. Our house will be different, too. [F 40s]

I wanted a different house so that the missing items wouldn't seem gone. I couldn't look in a room and see something was not there anymore. [F 60s]

Only one household wanted no change:

We wanted to feel like we did before. We liked our house and our furniture, so we had the same designer do our plans. [M 70s]

Innovation is Imperative. Research indicates (Erikson 1979) that furniture styles change to correspond with different phases of ones' life cycle, and as such are indicative of change in self-definition. However, when rebuying furniture, only three households opted to change their styles completely; two households were replacing lost antiques with other antiques of a similar period; five households were integrating styles to include pieces similar to their former furniture and styles new to them; one couple replaced their household contents exactly. Overall, respondents were happy for the opportunity to change styles.

I want a mix of styles; stuff with a sense of humor. So I hired a low-key decorator and told her to help me choose, then do the rest. I just wanted to get it finished. The new stuff won't have the same history. You can't buy history, it has to get done. I just want whimsy now. [F 60s]

We changed our [furniture] style. The love is gone for what was lost. We won't love the new things like we did the old, but we'll get by. [F40s]

One obvious exception to the rule was a couple who held fast to their past tradition:

We called Plummers [local furniture store] and had them send over the same furniture we had before. It was newer, of course, but we got the same colors and sizes. It's all just like it was. We didn't want better, and we have no regrets. [F 70s]

We expected that victims' purchases would reflect changes, and respondents confirmed our third proposition through the frequent use of words like "different" and "alternative" in their discussions.

SURPRISE

In addition to our propositions, a theme that emerged from the narrative was the nature and enormity of the shopping experience. Transcripts were filled with remarks about the amount of time victims had allocated to the shopping process. All respondents, without exception, described the experience as a "task" that took much of their efforts for the past year. All but one household, however, had no remorse for the way they conducted their repurchases and rebuilding, and were pleased with the outcomes of their endeavors.

Shopping became my full-time job. I quit work just so I could attend to all the details. You just don't realize how much work is involved in getting everything new. From your shoes to the door knobs, everything has to be chosen. [F 40s]

If I have to make another decision I'll scream. I hired a few people to help me, but I could have used a few more. It's too much for one person to do alone. [F 60s]

No, we'd never have a decoratorCshopping is too much fun. [F 40s]

We had all antiques, so we're searching for similar ones. They're ten times the price we paid, but looking is fun. We love poking in shops to find just the right piece. [F 40s]

DISCUSSION

Preliminary results from this research suggest that victims of catastrophic events experience several types of changes that are reflected in the way they relate to material possessions. While all three of our propositions were validated by respondents' testimony, the most significant finding is the extent to which reacquisition involves reconstruction of self-identity for disaster victims. Meanings inherent in possessions that were symbolic of accomplishments, events, or relationships were buried with the objects. Some victims wondered, since the tangible expressions of their skills and talents were gone, whether those skills and talents were lost as well. Did the missing trophy erase the championship game? Most victims, reluctant to reinvest part of themselves in new possessions, viewed objects with detachment. No longer symbols of self, objects served to accommodate rather than to delineate.

Self-gifting seemed to play a significant role in the repurchase process. The notion of "deserving" the best resulted in an elevated evoked set of brands for post-disaster consumersCvictims moved up in their purchase sets, raising their standards of living. None of the respondents reported choosing items costing less than their predecessors. Testimony indicated that price dropped in relative importance as a purchase attribute for most respondents.

Narratives reflected that, in spite of the elevations in lifestyle through larger homes and more expensive durable goods, respondents placed less importance on their possessions than they did before the fire. The porous relationship that existed between being (self) and having (objects) before the fire was transformed into a fixed relationship: possessions took on a finite value and were less important for self-definition after disaster than they had been prior to the catastrophic event. Narratives also suggest that victims were more likely to look to relationships and ideological symbols of completeness for their personal definitions than they had previously. A change in purchase philosophy was reported by most respondents who believed that fewer objects were better; most said that they preferred product quality over quantity.

A significant discovery that emerged from the data suggests that the more time respondents allocated to shopping, the more they expressed attachment to the objects obtained. Respondents indicated that goods purchased in haste or as part of a multiple- purchase effort were without personal significance. Victims' disclosures caused us to suspect that perhaps the time, place and experience of acquisitions are the factors that lend meaning C when faced with having to replace many objects in a short span of time, there may be less meaning associated with those objects than others purchased over extended time periods in a variety of settings. This characteristic seemed true independent of the cost of the items bought. Thus, the temporal aspect of post-disaster shopping may be important for understanding post-disaster purchase behavior.

For many respondents, meaning could be created through the shopping experience. Because meaning is dependent upon a relationship or a history that exists between an object and its owner, objects become symbols of events, people and places. When objects are destroyed and the symbols are removed, their meanings cannot be replaced simply by repurchasing like items. But if the shopping experience had a story, the object was vested with meaning from the experience.

Limitations

This study is limited by the number of interviews and the narrowness of the geographic data set. The similarity of demographics among respondents also restricts generalization to other victims of catastrophic events who are insured and have upper-middle class incomes. However, our research should be of interest to manufactures and retailers who need to understand differences in post-disaster victims as consumers.

Another problem lies with our inability to measure the levels of Sartre's components of identity, having, being and doing, as they relate to our respondents. Lack of measurement resulted in our evaluating the relationship between the victim's having and being components after the unexpected event; doing was not studied.

CONCLUSION

Within the realm of interesting circumstances caused by disaster and with the cooperation of disaster victims, this study found a changing role of possessions and their meaning. The process of post-disaster identity reconstruction may be conceptualized as a huge shopping trip. For most respondents, the experience was utilitarian in nature and seemed like work. However, on occasion, the shopping experience could be fun. Objects purchased by respondents who perceived shopping as work had little impact on self-definition. Conversely, respondents who approached shopping as fun developed an attachment for the purchase-objects, culminating in a meaningful and identity-building experience.

Babin, Darden and Griffin's (1994) model for evaluating the shopping experience as either work or fun directly corresponds to the level of attachment reported between shopper and purchase during disaster reconstruction. This study expands that model by suggesting that, for all victims of catastrophic loss, the shopping experience may be a substitute for product-owner history, and that the nature of that experience very well may shape the process of reacquisition for the assemblage of identity-facilitating symbols.

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Like most of my generation, I was brought up believing in the American dream. That is the idea that working hard can help you achieve anything you desire. Being a highly gullible kid, I developed a conscience that viewed the American dream as the quintessential pursuit. But although my conscience has controlled my actions, while growing up, my opinions have undergone a revolution. I started to examine the idea of the dream deeper and I had to face truths and truisms that led me to question the moral culpability of the people that promulgated it.

 

I came to understand that this alluring notion has indoctrinated our belief system and our thinking motifs in a very devious way. We became actors in an involuntary rat race that urged us to keep pursuing abstract concepts and frivolous dreams. Dreams that were usually imposed by others. Dreams that were never really chosen by us.

 

You see, owning the concept of reality as this is manifested in your everyday endeavors is a very daunting task. The required struggle entailed in this process becomes an unquestionable constituent of what the evangelists of the American dream would call a well-exercised life. The struggle becomes entangled into your paradigm and you happily or unhappily accept it as a necessity. You end up blindly following the rules of the game and you become mesmerized by its enchanting nature, eventually forgetting what this game is all about anyway.

 

But does this always need to be this way?

 

I remember when I watched Tarrantino’s “Hateful eight,” there was a scene that really stood out for me. John ‘The Hangman’ Rut, while discussing his views about bounty hunting, stated: No one said this job was supposed to be easy. To which Major Marquis Warren replied: Nobody said it’s supposed to be that hard, neither! (2:06 on trailer below)

In almost every film, there is a scene that stands out. A scene that elicits an emotional response so visceral that allows you to engage with its narrative and identify with its message. When the two men had this short but potent verbal exchange, I knew this was my scene.

 

These two men are archetypal figures. The first one represents the archetype of the hustler. That is the person immersing in the job without further questioning and promoting a “no job is easy/the hustle is all there is” mentality. The hustler is a go-getter. He will do whatever is required to finish the job and his reputation is predicated upon his capacity to keep presenting the hustle as the ultimate virtue. The idea of strategy and the adoption of innovative practices that could ease the burden of work sound nonsensical to him. Hustle is what governs his logic and different ideas are just distracting noise.

 

The second one represents the archetype of the entrepreneur. That is the person constantly challenging conventional wisdom and being in the search for innovative practices that would revamp his paradigm. The entrepreneur is also a go-getter. The fundamental difference between him and the hustler though is that although hustle should be a significant facet of his philosophy, it shouldn’t be considered a dogma. An entrepreneur does whatever it takes to adopt innovative methodologies, sail in uncharted waters and bend the rules of dogmatic reality.

 

These two archetypes are presented in this essay deliberately. I wanted to find a lucid way to argue about the proclivity of modern humans to propagate the idea of hard work as one of the ultimate human virtues. We glorify figures that are able to showcase hardship in the way they accomplish their tasks and whenever we are presented with an idea of an alternative, we tend to dismiss it. Especially in conservative circles, this seems to be the status quo.

 

However, today I want to pose a rather thought-provoking question: What constitutes hardship?

 

In my point of view, hardship should be broken down into two categories: The fake hardship and the valuable hardship.

 

Fake hardship is the one exhibited by figures pertaining to the archetype of the hustler as this was discussed above. People in that category use the idea of hardship as a pathway to a more favorable treatment, for our tendency to respect hardship will automatically urge us to empathize with them. Essentially, fake hardship is synonymous to emotional manipulation.

 

Valuable hardship, on the other hand, is not advertised by anyone. For valuable hardship constitutes an imperative element of a well-examined life. Whether this form of hardship will be respected or admired is irrelevant. Its purpose is to remind us of our limitations and eventually help us transcend the boundaries of our capabilities.

 

Drawing from these two definitions, we end up forming a more canonical interpretation of the term hardship and how this plays out across the span of our lives. Revealing the truth in that respect can offer insight in the way one deals with hardship, but also in the way one deals with what many would call its diametrically opposite term – indulgence.

 

Indulgence is a very interesting and often misunderstood word. Its usage can be found in a plethora of contexts and one can easily get confused with regards to its proper definition. For the purposes of this article, I will make use of the word indulgence as a synthesis of the words satisfaction, gratification, and fulfillment. These are words that have always been of great gravity to me and their pursuit has defined, to a large extent, the way I lead my life. Hence indulgence will be the point of focus in this essay.

 

The choice of the topic wasn’t coincidental. In our modern epoch, one will unavoidably stumble upon writers who will try to make a name by creating guides like the art of doing, the art of work, the art of hustle and similar artful interpretations of what constitutes meaningful activities. Upon reading all these titles, a logical question arises:

 

Why isn’t anyone discussing the art of indulging?

 

What is so bad about indulgence anyway that it has become such a rarely discussed topic? In my opinion, there is nothing bad with the term itself. The problem arises when people tend to misinterpret the meaning of words and also fail to see their true value.

 

For instance, oftentimes, indulgence is associated with debauchery. That is the excessive indulgence in sex, alcohol, or drugs. Although all these forms of pleasure are quite beguiling, immoderate immersion in them can lead to imbalance and even lack of purpose. Thus having them associated with indulgence stigmatizes the significance of the word.

 

This point is very accurate since one way to describe life would be as the amalgamation of habits and practices that can ensue a balanced lifestyle. We are constantly in the search for the right combination of choices that can offer us a way to balance out the multitude of stimuli that intrude our presence. Therefore, balance seems to be, for now, the most optimal way of living.

 

In such a complex landscape, indulgence needs to battle hard in order to establish its value concretely. Its battle seems similar to our battle. The everyday battle each and every one of us faces whilst attempting to make the best out of our lives. When I had this realization, I couldn’t help but empathize with this predicament and work harder in ensuring that indulgence gets the praise it deserves.

 

In a world where the proper understanding of the word indulgence becomes self-evident, one can reap easier the benefits of a more effectual mode of being. A mode of being that is characterized by intent, awareness and a pragmatic strategy that will allow us to dissipate modern conundrums we all face.

 

Such a conundrum is the pursuit of meaningful work; work that is free from oppression and becomes a way of living rather than a way of surviving.

 

Since the beginning of the industrial revolution, this omnipresent conundrum has led to the hypnosis of the modern worker and his or her inability to think differently. Specialization of labor has boosted productivity, but, at the same time, it has reduced the amount of indulgence entailed in the work. Menial work became the safe choice and our loss aversion mechanism urged most people to gravitate towards safety rather than pursue different working patterns.

 

I want to emphasize the word menial here because specialization as a general concept doesn’t necessarily act as a hindrance to indulgence. Specialization can offer the chance to immerse in deep work, which can be very satisfying in itself. Insofar as one decides to investigate the intent behind the work of choice, one can experience tremendous joy in work even if it involves a great degree of specialization.

 

After the advent of the Internet, the concept of meaningful work has gained steam, since more and more people have initiated the fertilization of revolutionary alternatives. Entrepreneurship has transitioned from an endeavor associated with the privileged few, to an endeavor associated with anyone creative enough to disrupt different markets. Artists and content creators have managed to monetize their work and build followings that could identify with their message. Different working trajectories keep emerging and people can change specializations just by teaching themselves new skills online.

 

In general, the opportunities keep rising and one could say that, eventually, they will become endless. However, plurality isn’t the answer to satisfaction. People’s dissatisfaction is still palpable and one could argue that most not only don’t feel better than before but also that the average stress levels have increased dramatically.

 

The reason is quite self-evident. The rat race has changed only form, not purpose. Everyone keeps chasing a different version of the American dream, ignorant of the ramifications that such a situation begets. Indulgence is still either very small or completely absent. And that because most ignore it deliberately.

 

The nature of the work one does becomes meaningful only when it provides the necessary status that will result in admiration from the rest of the society. The creation of value becomes an ill-defined idea and the notion of indulgence gets lost in the translation of this idea.

 

When Bernard Russell introduced us to his monumental essay, in praise of idleness, he explained that idleness shouldn’t be treated as laziness, but rather as a critical idea that allows us to see through the maladies of overproduction.

Bertrand Russell

 

I believe that indulgence needs to be approached in the same light. Indulgence is the antidote to the deleterious effects of modern work that is solely associated with toxic accomplishment. Work can offer indeed accomplishment, but an accomplishment far greater than the one limited within the confines of our social edifice.

 

How many people do you know of that immerse in work just for the sake of creativity? Or for the sake of knowledge? Or for the sake of flow? Or for the sake of presence? Or for the sake of self-transcendence?

 

All these terms are swallowed by the monolithic idea of work as this was presented by the forefathers of the American dream.

 

Just imagine if you for once would stop caring how others perceive your work, and focus on everything that allows you to indulge in the work itself. Everything from your interaction with your colleagues, to finding solutions to seemingly insoluble problems.

 

If this was the case, just imagine how most will focus on the happiness and joy of life, instead of frayed nerves, weariness, and dyspepsia.

 

Just imagine.

 

Indulgence isn’t just a way to turn imagination into reality but it is the way in and of itself and we have been ignoring it. In this we have been foolish, but there is no reason to go on being foolish forever.

 

The act of indulging can be materialized by immersing in an activity totally and by identifying the true value of the activity itself. If you are unsure where to start, the “30 Challenges – 30 Days – Zero Excuses” workbook provides a selection of activities that can structure your life around the art of indulgence.

 

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Andrian Iliopoulos

I am the founder and main contributor at The Quintessential Mind - A unique personal blog that offers a holistic approach to self-development. I am striving to create high-quality content by investing in a reality-based form of self-help, informed by a deep understanding of psychology, philosophy and my own personal experiences and social adventures.

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